A man not connected to his heart will extract the feminine.

When a woman devotes her feminine - her heart and her sex, to a man who cannot receive her or appreciate the outpouring from her heart, he will extract from her, leaving her dry of pleasure, abundance and even finances.

I have seen this pattern time and time again.

Including in my own life.

When a man cannot receive the feminine - usually because of a disconnect from his own feminine receivership and pleasure - his relationship to women becomes extractive.

I have seen men unconsciously feed off women - using their pleasure to create a field of magnetism that draws them more wealth, more abundance - that makes them more desirable even - only to leave the woman dry, depleted, tired, with a myriad of health issues and without creativity, finances and abundance.

Yes, and of course there is responsibility here for the woman - in learning boundaries - and in learning how to not give herself away so easily.

I personally, have closed relationships before that have had this pattern play out and have watched in real time, how money starts to pour into my account again after months of having a “dry spell”.

I have watched men create visions that I have had when I have been with them, claiming them as their own, when the vision landed through my vessel.

Vision extraction.

Wealth extraction.

Creativity extraction.

Pleasure extraction.

This underlying pattern is pervasive - it is the reason we are experiencing environmental crisis, domestic violence (yes, I believe violence is the absence of connection to the feminine principle).

Sometimes, for example, in the case of abuse, this pattern is obvious. Extraction is blatant.

And other times, it is far more subtle - it just looks like, the woman feeling stuck, or obliged to overgive.

Whatever the case, the symptoms are the same: exhaustion, low vitality - we feel drained, despite the excitement of giving.

And that is because whilst our hearts are open, whilst our heart feels the devotion of giving - it is not received and it hits into a wall.

And yet, it also sucks us in - we can’t stop, we feel compelled to continue to keep giving to them, even though it is not appreciated. And that is because there is a hook here: they are reliant on your source of feminine energy in order to fuel their own.