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My article Loving an Avoidant has been my most popular article yet.
And so I thought I would follow up here with a sequel piece.
I have been sitting with the notion of being avoidant, cross referencing these words with my own experiences of dating one for the past two years.
And something that I can tell you, is that it is a radical oversimplification, and does not really do justice to the complexities of what the “avoidance” is really all about.
